should I even bother trying anymore?

As happy as it made me to hear my cam model friend agree to work towards a real romantic relationship, I’m beginning to have doubts due to the long distance…and I still can’t get anybody else to giv_ Alecia:Is it possible to be too much alike?(4 March 2019) Alecia:Neither of us were willing to just ask the [...]
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Gema:
Now she tells me she doesn't need to talk to a therapist she needs someone to accept her flaws.
(6 March 2019)

Gema:
And she said it's cause of her ex.
(6 March 2019)

Gema:
At the beginning she was letting me pay for everything until i asked.
(6 March 2019)

Gema:
I feel as though this ex situation is just an excuse to be a shitty partner?
(6 March 2019)

Gema:
Now she's come up with every excuse why she can't get councilling.
(6 March 2019)

Gema:
I broke it off and we have been talking (we live together) and I've told her the only way we could move forward is if she had counselling over her last relationship.
(6 March 2019)

Gema:
Everything always comes back to this guy.
(6 March 2019)

Gema:
She would never initiate sex or plan any dates and her excuses were her ex.
(6 March 2019)

Gema:
If ever we have an argument she will go quiet and not speak to me for an hour and then I ask what's up and she says it just reminded her of her ex.
(6 March 2019)

Gema:
He was emotionally abusive and she's constantly bringing it up.
(6 March 2019)